Nope you are not alone, I also thought I was until your reply. He also drives me bonkers some days. Reality is, kids listen much better to their dcp than their own parents. They feel like they can express themselves and their frustrations at home with who they feel most comfortable with, their parents. That's when they let go.
So my dck listen amazingly everyday but it's a different story when they get home! my son is the one that cries, doesn't share, says 'no' every 2 minutes, tries to hit, all things he's never done before I opened the daycare. He was such an easy going kid. But i know it's a lot for him. He’s shown some improvements in the last month but I too have a long way to go him...sigh. Maybe we.can share pointers with each other! Enjoy the rest of your week.... It's almost Friday !