Misgivings / Uneasy relationship

[Fun&care]

I can understand why parents would want to check in every so often. Totally understandable. Although I find driving by a little creepy...this just seems like plain mistrust. I would NOT feel comfortable caring for a child who's parent didnt trust me. I think it would be good to have a serious conversation about this. Either she trusts you, or she doesn't, there is no gray area and if she does not trust you than she should move on and if she does trust you then she needs to back off a little.