Misgivings / Uneasy relationship

[Spixie33]

did you ask her why she wasn't at work. And really if there was a problem she should have stopped by and not driven by.

She got off early from work to run errands.

So if she is driving by my house 2 hours early then why not come pick up your daughter?? My house is not near stores or places to run errands.

She did tell me she was very paranoid during our interview and I used to show up early at my own daycare to pick up my kids early sometimes just so I could see what was happening but this feels more like spying because she didn't actually come pick up or stop the car.

I would think that a parent should be happy driving by to see I am out playing with the kids.