How would you handle this?

[nschildcare]

Thanks everyone. I do appreciate everyone's input.

I think writing it out has helped clear it up for me. I do believe this 'extra' behaviour at naptimes is connected with the other defiance flare up. I was thinking of them as two separate issues but now, in reading back through this, I think that it is part and parcel with the new children starting.

I will give it a few weeks and see how it goes. Let her scream it out and actively ignore