Rightly offended? . . . or just tired and pregnant?

[Crayola kiddies]

If this was an everyday thing then I could see the problem but its one day ... Nap her some where else and get the dad to text you as he's arriving .... Get the kid ready and stand outside the door so the noise doesn't disrupt the others .... It's a one time thing .... Or tell them to keep her home and give them the a credit for the day