I can't do it. I also don't think it's fair to the child trying to transition, or to the other kids in your care.

I have told the parents why (crying all day) they are being termed and that I don't think that their child is ready for group care. They have all been understanding. Once was after two weeks and once was after 2 days!

If you can't handle it, you can't handle it. There is nothing wrong with that.