find out what really matters to her. I had one boy who would have major tantrums. He would sit in the time out chair and scream. I made him sit there until he was done, the longer he screamed the longer he sat there. I would purposely do fun activities while he sat there. He soon realized if he wanted to take part he needed to be quiet. This boy also hated being last so if he was behaving badly he would be last when we did things. Another thing I have done is give the child who isn't behaving something different for afternoon snack than the rest. So while everyone gets yummy cookies, child who has been bad gets rice cakes.

I just don't allow tantrums and haven't had much patience for a child acting that way. Other than the one boy things have been pretty good.