I would ask for her to not wear around your child. I'm my opinion and this is mine not passing judgment on those who don't agree is that children don't need to be exposed to more chemicals then they already are.
I wear perfume but my own children are older now and I never wore allot where if need to re wash clothing.
I would suggest to your provider that it's a bit to much and if she couldn't wear or wore less due to sensitive you are I'm sure she will understand.