He is definitely to heavy for me to carry him on my back so can't do that. The "cocoon" thingy he has been sleeping in at home looks like sleeper, but with no leg openings, it's like a pouch and he goes in there and his arms go out the arm holes and it zips up to his neck so he cannot move much at all. Then he's wrapped all up like the wrap infants up when they are born. I think he is way to big for this, he is already a year old. I did send home some information on sleep training as it's my guess he does not know how to put himself to sleep without one of them rocking or soothing. He is one so he should know how to fall asleep on his own. I agree waiting until 3 days before,you return to work to look for daycare is not helping the child out at all. I told the mom I would give it 2 - 3 weeks to see improvement and if nine, he would not be able to stay in my daycare...it's to,upsetting to the other children especially when they really do not see much crying here at all. If you had a small,one adjusting, did you speak to the other dcp about this or not say anything