Screaming/crying infant- How to make parents realise the problem is serious?

[Polkaroo]

My newest dcb screams all day and her parents don't AP. She is not held all the time at home, sleeps perfectly on her own and I've visited her many times before care started and she wasn’t like this.

But now that's she's here with other kids, she cries for everything just like you describe in your post. Even if another dck walks by her. It's actually a problem for me now. It's starting to affect all the kids and I can't do all the fun stuff we did before. I'm full now and can't be attending to her very minute. She's only happy when she's in her playpen but I can't keep her there all day! I tried everything and nothing worked. She just doesn't like other kids. She's fine if it's just she and I but that's impossible and unfortunately my patience is running thin. She's the first one here in the morning and one of the lasts to leave. I'm on week 3 and not sure what to do/try anymore. So I feel you teddybeartots! I hope for you the crying stops before the others start because it's not easy.

I even tried all her 'favorites', song, animal, book, food, NOTHING worked. Like you mention, I had a talk with the parents and was very clear on how it's affecting everyone. Ok...Vent over! Lol any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated because I tried everything that was listed in this post (except for termination).They are amazing and I LOVE this family, i hope it doesn't come down to that. Hopefully I can find a way to settle her in.