I have this set of brothers for b/a care. The youngest is 4, turning 5 in 16 sleeps (I am not usually that on top of birthdays, but his birthday is the same day as my c-section and darn straight I am counting down..lol.. )

Anyhow, this dcb forgets EVERYTHING. I mean things that are done on a daily basis, are forgotten daily. It is actually quite frustrating. I understand if you are 2-3 OR forget occasionally OR you forget random things. But the tasks that I need to remind him about, are, no joke, every day. Here are some examples:

-close the door when you go to the bathroom
-flush the toilet
-wash your hands
-turn off the running water
-put your boots on the rack
-dont leave your backpack in the middle of the floor
-lunch bag goes into your backpack after snack
-garbage is not left on the table
-we say please when asking for something
-we say thank you when getting something
-jackets need to be hung up

That is just some. I dont know if I am expecting to much?! But I thought at that age, these would be normal everyday things. And he has been with me for 7 months, so it is not like it is new rules, but it seems as though his mom has similar ones as she tells him the same things at pick up.

And to make matters worse, he has started to whine when I remind him of certain things.

What do you think. Am I expecting to much? Is it these hormones? Or should these be regular tasks that a 5 year old should know? I personally have my own 4.5 year old, but I do not like to compare.