Hi! Just a small comment, advice that someone gave me before I started, on dealing with your own kids. All of the toys in my playroom are MINE! Not one of my daughters toys comes in! That way there can never be jealousy over other people using her things. For an hour each day after the others leave we have special time just to ourselves so she can have my constant attention then! I know evenings can be hectic but this time has really helped her deal with 'sharing' her Mommy!