Rough morning!!!

[sunnydays]

I had one who took 4 weeks...it is very hard when they cry all day! However, it is normal for some kids unfortunately I kind of get where the mom is coming from...he is not crying at home, so she doesn't really know what she can do to help. It will take time for him to feel secure with you and the other kids. Try sitting on the floor with him and gradually moving farther away bit by bit until he feels secure playing on his own. It is hard for them to just be plunked down in the midst of the busyness. Sometimes they need a lot of reassurance. Hang in there!

[Spixie33]

((hugs))

Transitioning kids has got to earn us a nomination for sainthood.

I have been there many times and have had days where I just felt like calling the parents to say I give up and to come get their child. Fantasizing about quitting would get me through the day.

Usually it takes 2-4 weeks to settle the crier and just when I am about to terminate - I realize the child is settling in better.

I agree with keeping on a tight routine/schedule so the child learns what happens next.

Try spending some one on one time with the child where you play with the child rather than just holding them. Try dancing with them or playing something silly to start building that trust and bond with them. Once they learn to trust you and the other kids and your home then the child will settle in.

It is really draining - make sure you take it easy on weekends and evenings to recharge your own batteries and stay sane.