I was just talking about this topic with a friend , who is a preschool teacher . I am having a similar issue with a very clever two year old . I share your concerns ! Especially as you say the parent is accepting the child's interpretation of each situation . The fact that the parent didn't come to you immediately with any concerns is so frustrating !!
This is what my friends advice to me was to casually mention the child's confrontations and to make sure the parent knows the true scenario , she said if the child is doing this at dayhome they are prob doing it at home too . This works for mine because dcg misunderstands the children's actions around her , such as a child building blocks with her is wrecking her blocks as example . I was worried because the dcg was climbing our inside slide and another two yr old girl joined her , the one grabbed onto the other and the one starts screaming ,"she tried to pull my pants down !!" ( while it was what she grabbed the intention was not there )
I am constantly reinforcing what the true motives were , and mentioning it at pick up , in my situation mom is pretty understanding and I feel like I have a handle on it !
I think you should trust your instincts .

































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