Well it took over 2 months, twice a day, every day but the kid that never once napped and just sat there...for hours on end, silently, is now napping!!
Three days in a row...just one nap the first day then 2 naps each day since. The first nap was only 40min, then 50min now they are 1hr10-1hr30min each.
The child got up after 45min and lied back down and slept another 45min today. This is HUGE. I was really thinking the kid would NEVER figure out how to lie themselves down and go to sleep.
Two months is wayyyyy to long for a 13month old to not nap all day, every day. At least the child was happy and calm both in the program and in the crib all this time.