@ mickyc Wow you are right this has gotten way off base, and I have to be honest when my son was in lic. care and I paid for a ft spot..I would grocery shop, and go to the doc etc, when he was at daycare, and I was not booked to work..... But this was not a daily "day off thing."

It boggles my mind how some can say the care for kids, and yet in the same breath these very same people can come across as bullies and hypocrites. How can people with these traits be caring for our most precious, and building future adults...??