Yes, for the most part I think I feel like honestly, I don't know what it's like to be in the minority, so what do I know? But there is that other part of me that feels like it's a bit of an insult for her to leave because she was the minority...she has only been here since January, how does she know that I may have signed on another "minority" child? Bleh...I don't want to brood over this too much, I can't always put myself in others shoes, but it sure has got me scratching my head.