Very shy/emotional girl. Not sure what to do

[Lou]

I think moving to 3 times a week, and then ESPECIALLY when she is full time you will see a major change. When she learns to anticipate exactly what is going to come next she won't stress about the transitions during the day. As for eating, just serve it and let it be. If she doesn't eat, she will be hungry and she will eventually learn that is the repercussion of not eating. Certain temperaments take longer to adjust, and then with her only attending 1 day/week it hasn't really allowed her to transition fully. I think you'll see the biggest change when she moves to full time!