I think the main problem could be that the poster (with the crazy thread) ended up clumping us all together and calling people names and such. I think they just wanted to come here and cause problems. You can post and like I tell people, if you don't like what is said, you can move on, its a computer just step away. We all have reasons why we do things, but this one poster said that we need to spend every single waking moment with our kids (she should come hang out with my own teenage crowd, she'll be singing a different tune) so post away and don't be afraid.