Which would you choose...

[Fun&care]

I've had both and I prefer the crappy sleeper. Mostly because I put them in their own room, shut the door and it's up to them to decide to either scream or sleep. I've had those 12 month olds who would not let me move also and it's the worse. You can't get away from the screaming or if you try to, the screaming/ meltdown gets worse! I think sleep is a much easier fix than neediness/ clingyness, although in the end it does depend on the individual child and their personality so it's not always quite black and white.