Thank you for all your advise I talked to mom about it and she doesn't think it's much of a problem. I let her know that every tantrum she will be placed in a time out. Mom thinks that's a bit harsh and this "phase" will pass and I need to be more patient! My patience has lasted for 2 months. Doing nothing (ignoring) has not worked. So we need to step it up, I get the feeling that she may start to look for a different daycare over this disagreement between us. I'm sure the next daycare won't put up with it either. So far today (she's been here for 4 hours) she has been placed in time out 5 times for 2 minutes. I'm not sure if my persistence will pay off if she sill getting away with it at home I'd imagine mom won't be happy to find out that she has been in that many time outs but it has to stop, sigh, thankfully my other kids are an absolute pleasure to be around all day! Will keep pressing on thanks again for all your advice