Difficulty adjusting to change, advise please

[mickyc]

I do not allow meltdowns...period. If you are doing to act like that then you sit in the timeout chair. That is not acceptable behaviour. Maybe I am just a mean a$$, lol.

it sounds like she is getting what she wants when she wants with her behaviour so trying it with you. Nip it in the bud quick and fast or the other kids will start acting that way as well.