Thanks I am going to speak to mom about it and just hope she sees that I am concerned not complaining. Summer is around the corner so I am sure there will be days and weeks either child is off . So I would like to get a handle on this sooner then later! My other concern is I have 2 new Smallcchildren starting and her having these melt downs at pick up and drop off will likely scare thenew cchildren who are dealing with there own real transition