I try hard not to let it get to me to much but obviously with today's antics I needed to let off a bit of steam. I have had a laid back parent before which is probably worse as it's so hard to see a parent "appear" to not care. Funny things is the AP child's mom is sometimes super laid back in certain areas. This week, day 4, child is still wearing the same clothes, right down to his socks which are visibly dirty today and banana is on the sleeves of his shirt. He doesn't look to bad but it's just another reason to shake my head especially when she told me she only bathes him once a week at the most. That's all good and we'll but at least a fresh set of clothes daily would be an idea.