I also think there's a difference between leaving to go to an actual preschool or daycare center and leaving to go to another home daycare. Centers can offer things that we can't, such as subsidized fees, or care in the same building one of the parents work at. That, I can totally understand. But leaving to go to another home daycare...if she wants to, that's fine, but I think it's pretty ridiculous of her to try to persuade other clients to go as well.