That is very nice of you to want to leave a gift. I aM sure no matter what you give, it will be appreciated

Things I have received when families have left are restaurant gift cards, prepaid credit card, store gift cards, oil scented decor, flowers, dcp ornament (child and adult hugging) and very thoughtful words in cards.

I think it's great if you want to leave something for the dc kids as well but I would suggest a gift card for this. Maybe one to toysrus? This way she can get something she needs or use it towards a bigger purchase she's been saving for?