Am I crossing a line?

[Secondtimearound]

I think you are not over the line !! I'm constantly trying to get dcks out the door without drama ! I have my backyard split into two sections , one is for me , grown up size definition not fun for a child and dayhome side , beautiful cedar playhouse with matching sandbox , chalkboard and water table . Everyone knows the rules , they stay on their side , which is super easy because my yard is L shaped only a little 7 ft passage seperates the play areas . Dcm comes and guess wherey dcg runs to ? Looking at me ? My assistant took her by the hand and told her no , but dcm just stood looking !!
This weekend I'm installing hooks on the outside of the fence all dc bags will be there , then as soon as mom pulls up , I'm escorting dcks out ! I'm getting tired of the" I'm not going " drama every night !
And in my dayhome entry , my dh just made pallet swinging gate , I couldn't find a gate long and hardy enough , so that I can bring dck to the door and keep the drama low then too !!
On a side note , had a parent play with their child in brand new cedar playhouse ,at pick up, we were inside because it was raining , the child broke the shutter and they left , no heads up !!! Day one of the play house !!!
So I had dh remove them , door is next !! Geez doesn't anyone play properly anymore ?!!!
Sorry getting back on topic , I'm not sure why parents think it's ok to stand chat at pick up ? Just because your off doesn't mean we are !!