Oh no worries, the 2 year old was perfectly safe and within my vision! My point is that someone else could have seen the situation and judged me because they would not have known all the facts and may not have realized that I could still see the 2 year old. There are many ways to handle the same situation but just because it's different from someone else's doesn't make it wrong or right.
As for the site, it's not really slander if the persons name or business isn't mentioned. It's just someone's opinion and judgement of something they witnessed. Don't get me wrong, it annoys me big time when people post those threads but it's not slander IMO. There are many other threads and useful info on this site but it's definitely a site that you have to have a thick skin if your going to be part of the discussions. There's also classifieds, weather, entertainment and local info on the site. It's ran by a very strict person and slander of people and businesses is not allowed and people get banned from posting on the discussions often.