Big Red Flags...am I right to be cautious

[Other Mummy]

*UPDATE* So DCM drops off DCB for his "1 hour" visit. Of course he crying and not settling. After 30 min she rings my doorbell. I know it is her, so I take her son in my arms and open the door and hand him to her. She apologizes and tells me it won't work as she cannot stand to see him cry. She will have her mother watch him and pay her. So I guess the nanny thing was to expensive. I'm sure she spent last night scouring the internet for a cheap nanny. I remind her that she still owes me 2 weeks tuition fees as per our contract. She had the cash in hand, and told me she will call me next year when he is 2 years old and we will try again. Guess who will suddenly be full and have no spots available when she calls in a year Oh well, can't complain, easiest fees I've earned I guess.