My problem dcb's parents gave their notice today!! I'm sooooo relieved! I was on the cusp of doing it myself but I have trouble giving bad news so...
I sent a letter home yesterday basically saying things weren't working, gave some examples of his behaviour and suggestions for what to do to help. Mom wrote me a note this morning with a resounding 'no' or 'we don't see this issue at home' on all points (which in itself was incredibly disrespectful - the resources I'd given her SHE GAVE BACK in the envelope with her note ). But she then admitted it wasn't a good fit so they're going elsewhere. She agreed to pay for the notice period, but is hoping to find him a spot elsewhere sooner. I'm so so happy that there is finally an endpoint to look forward to.
Huge weight lifted! I can't wait to finally enjoy being a provider again!