It's the same mentality that has lead many parents to enroll their kids in every activity possible before they are even walking. My 3 year old recently started a rec centre indoor soccer program and feels like he doesn't know how to play because many of the other 3-4 year olds have obviously been playing for awhile Most kids have no free time these days...it is all structured acitvities, which are great in moderation, but they need down-time too!