A husband vent!

[CrazyEight]

Thank you guys so much for your responses. Playfelt, I wish we could afford to have him stay home, but there is no way he would survive doing daycare, and I wouldn't be able to find a job here that pays enough to support us all with all of our student debt. I have a degree in European Studies and German, and would really need to move to a bigger city to find a job in the field...but a bigger city means higher house prices, so still the need for him to work.

Good to know others have had this problem too...men really do seem like children sometimes...you should see him when he's sick or gets a sunburn!

I just really want a career that I can get something out of, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, and maybe that's a lot to ask for, but I'm not even getting the opportunity to try, with his current job and lack of motivation to get a new one. We'll see how it goes tonight when I try to have a serious discussion with him.

Thanks again!