Oh CrazyEight! I would like to send a hug your way!

I sometimes feel like you although not to that extend. My husband is actively looking for a different job but I am the one who sends out cover letters and resumes for him. I send him the job listings and he tells me yes or no. Luckily for me we both know he needs a change.

I do feel sometimes like I am the one who is always supporting him emotionally and not always getting it in return. I don't think they really grasp how mentally draining this job is.

I do however enjoy my job more than you do. I have my days where I want to quit and go back to work but I do love being home and I do make more money than I did when I worked out of the home.

I can't really offer you any advice but I can certainly say I understand where you are coming from. Hopefully you can figure things out and get headed down a better path.