Daycare Parent's separation is affecting me

[5 Little Monkeys]

I know easier said than done but dad needs to tell the mom no. It's his week isn't it?

I would continue to charge dad the 4 days a week and it's up to him and mom to decide who pays for the day the kids aren't with you.

[MonkeyPrincess]

I know easier said than done but dad needs to tell the mom no. It's his week isn't it?

I would continue to charge dad the 4 days a week and it's up to him and mom to decide who pays for the day the kids aren't with you.

Oh yes, in this case, it's definitely 'easier said than done', . Mom makes things very difficult, especially when she doesn't get her way (ie make a scene at the park) . Dad is trying to be civil and doesn't want to fight with her but he is always at the losing end. Everyone is telling him to toughen up, stand his ground, stand up for his parental rights, etc.

Right now, we have the contract for the 4 days every other week and that will remain as is.