Oh I get where you are coming from and I don't think you are being dramatic, it being cautious and prepared, right? I am one to have things in writing. I have requested that he provide me with a copy of the separation agreement where it states who has her on which days. He hasn't given me it yet. From what I understand, legally I can't keep the away from the other parent unless I have a copy of a court order saying so. If I with hold the child, from the other parent, I can be charged with unlawful confinement or something like that.