Oh WHY did I say YES!!?

[Fun&care]

I think it was quite selfish of them to ask you in the first place. I think you definitely have every right to go back on your decision but definitely want to think things through moving forward. Be careful because parents will be quick to take advantage of you if you don't have a backbone!

[Lee-Bee]

In the future your answer to EVERY request should be "let me think about it and get back to you in a a few days". It takes the pressure off, allows you to fully think it through and should you feel pressured you can respond by email or at least pull together your reasoning to stand your ground in person :-)

So often we, as caring caregivers, can get sucked into something that isn't best for us becaus we are trying to be too helpful. BY sayign you will think about it and respond later allows you to think about your best interests first.