Nagging...

[Naftafia]

I think it is very important to prioritize the things to address and ensure that the repetitive "nagging" is only regarding the most important issues such as safety, abiding by the rules and possibly manners. What I find myself doing when I get tired of repeating is finding a way to get the message across either with different words or gestures... often trying to distract the child from the unwanted activity rather than use "stop" or "don't". As for examples if the kids are running I will start marching and say lets walk, if the kids are picking at their noses I will say all hands up in the air and/or I will ask them if it is the thing to do. I find these simple methods not only help me from getting annoyed with myself but makes it a more positive and gentle approach than the typical stop and don't. But at the end of the day kids will be kids and repetition is key. Good luck... maybe just change your voice when you talk... try being mickey mouse for a day

[gcj]

Thank you! That made me laugh. I've been Mickey Mouse for a day (well, 7 months)...literally!
Long story. But thanks for the advice. The main issue is 6/6 kids with colds and snot flying everywhere and my patience running out. Hopefully it'll be over soon!

[Sunflower]

I totally hear you on this one! what I try to do (my very best when possible! lol) is tell them what to do vs what not to do. ex remember to use a kleenex...when we are inside we walk etc. I know it doesn't seem like much but for me it really helps.
And like the others said... during these trying time I try to let the little things go as much as I can. we can only do so much after all ! lol
I hope next week is easier on you ,
Have a great weekend