I have been a daycare provider for 5 years now and only now have run into this! I had a mother of a little boy I watch ask me for his diaper bag on pick up. I told her it was upstairs in my room. (As this is where her son sleeps and gets changed. She is aware of where he sleeps) So she said, "great, I will get it." and goes upstairs... into my BEDROOM and grabs the bag... I tell her at the same time "it's okay, I can get it" but she doesn't listen and goes up with me.. Any thoughts on this???? My husband is very upset about it. Her son has been coming to my daycare for about a month now.


My husband wants me to tell her that she is only to come to the door.

What is your policy and how would you deal with this situation?

Thanks