I thought the exact same thing superfun.
During our last conversation, she told me that her older daughter was the "problem child" not the son that I terminated. (No matter how many times I tried to tell her I wasn't terming them because of his actions...it was hers, but this goes back to her not accepting responsibility for anything!!) and I felt so bad for the daughter who heard her mom tell me this.
It also bothers me because I can only imagine what she is telling others of her home daycare experience with me!! There is nothing I can do about that though and I know her accusations are false but unfortunately, people will only hear her story. Oh well....I just have to try and let it go!! Easier said than done lol