that's ok funnyfarm that is what we are here for!!
Amanda - I have the indirect supervision policy too but that still didn't seem to matter. It was funny because another family I had said if I was ok with it that they were ok with their child playing outside alone during nap time. I said sorry unfortunately the child can't play outdoors alone.
That is when I would be bringing up the policy they agreed to, not fair for you to be made to feel so bad about it!