The issue with the sample was mom WAS home next door and just expected me to do it! I would never expect my provider to do that with my own children, so I was caught off guard when it was an expectation.

They were picked up and the parents were very apologetic. However, dads response was "we're going to nip this in the butt tonight!"
Are they serious!?!? I advised them to look to their pediatrition for tips on behavioural strategies, as I firmly feel she may have aspbergers or mild autism, but that's not my place to say. They did however reveal that she displayed the same behaviour in her previous daycare.

My letter will be ready Friday. They would be miracle workers if they could change behaviour in one evening!