The catch is he is doing the exact same thing at home evenings and weekends. So as much as he is greatly unhappy - it is not solely a being in this daycare situation. I can term him but he'll be doing the same elsewhere. Perhaps he'd do better with a private nanny but they won't have money for that and if he's doing it at home with mom and dad then who knows if he'd stop with a nanny. Having been a nanny for years I can say that it would be MUCH easier to solve and end the screaming one on one though!!