What would you do?

[mickyc]

I don't ask the kids if they need to go I tell them. Doesn't matter how old they are, there are certain times they all take turns trying to go like before we go outside, before nap time etc. Potty time around here is at 9, 10:30, 12:30 and 3. If they need to go in between those times I hope they tell me but for the most part it isn't an issue. If you notice a child holding it tell them that holding it in can hurt their body and they need to listen to their body - is it telling you that you have to go? if they say no, I still say - how about you go try and see.