Thank you for all your advice.

I had books set out for him this morning for him to look at and read while I was getting my son ready for the day. I read one then said it was his turn to read the books by himself. I also put the big Barbie house in front of the window, so he can focus on the toys, books or activities that he is doing. So far the morning is going better. Hopefully, within a week or two I can say "go play" and he will get the toys out on his own.

My day home is loosely structured, I enjoy leading circle time, but I strongly believe in free play. Its going to be a work in progress getting this boy to play like the others, but he will get it.