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[Lee-Bee]

Can I put in some different advice ? Go slow !
We as women have a problem =fix a problem . I fully understand feeling like things have to be figured out now , but I have been through hard times too , figured out everything , started to make the changes and then found away to work it out . I'm not suggesting I know the answers to your problems at all ! My head agrees with everything that has been said ! My experience tells me go slow .
I won't go on and on about it , I know this is a major stressful time ! I feel for you !!!

Thanks :-) I did tell this family that I am not in a position to make any decisions right now so would get back to them. But, their offer gave me focus. I went from a whirlwind of having no idea what to do to now realizing alright, worst case scenario I move out, nearby, run a daycare with my daughter in my care even on my husband's week. This makes everything less stressful as I have some direction. I have this offer of a place but now am looking at other places in the neighborhood figuring out general prices, what I would need money wise, number of kids wise and all that to make it work. Should I need to.

I also realize that these 2 families have come up with this plan...but they came up with it the day I terminated care. They were likely shocked and reacting in their best interests...but may change their minds in the coming weeks so the plan they offered may not be viable.

Life is less stressful right now knowing that I do have this option. This option keeps my daughter's life more stable and allows her and I more time together so ultimately less stress on her. She wouldn't have to be bounced back and forth between me and dad AND between different daycare etc. Just knowing that this is an option goes a long ways to reduce stress on my end.

Again, that is all worst case scenario should my husband choose to not move forward to try and fix things, or at least attempt to before throwing in the towel.

Things are calm here at the house so I have no need to leave immediately as much as that was my gut instinct. I'll slowly move forward, hopefully my husband figures things out on his end quickly.

Thanks so much ladies. All the support and comments really have been incredibly helpful.