That sounds rough brightsparks. I myself have had to transition a few unsocialized kids and man was it tough. I mean I really really wish parents had a clue and actually made an effort to get their kids ready for daycare during the 12 month mat leave instead of coddling them at home and then dropping them off at daycare and hoping for the best.

That kind of screaming sounds like a nightmare. It must be really hard to be around! At the same time I feel it's still early. It's really up to you how much you can put up with but I like to give it 4-6 weeks. If you feel that's too long maybe you could put her on probation and if there is no improvement within 2 weeks than you will be done?