My daughter is 2yrs old. We started getting her used to the toilet about three months ago. 50% of the time she will go 'potty' at daycare. she will not announce she wants to go (timing etc.). At home she refuses to go and will run and hide if we ask her about going potty or if she has to have a bowel movement.

I have tried sitting her on the toilet at regular intervals and she either tries to jump off, has a meltdown, or simply won't go. Bribes and rewarding are fails.

It is just not her time? Is she just showing her independence and choosing to be difficult?

I feel like I have let our daycare down. But aside from enforcing sitting on the potty and making it a negative experience, I am running out of ways to make progress on this one.

In all other aspects, she is smart, cheerful, helpful, and polite. She has no' moments and rare meltdowns, but this potty thing is starting to feel like our Alamo.

Hellpppppppppppp.... ...