Your right about the kids years ago playing by themselves. I know parents occupy all of their time and don't give them time alone play, grow, become independent, and self soothe. I just started at 1 year old who can't play and can't self soothe "AT ALL". His Mom knows this and is trying to correct it now. Thank goodness she's on board with CIO. Maybe I need to teach them how to play with the toys and then sneak away lol. I like to have the first hr. and half during arrivals where I can get things done.