I most certainly can afford to terminate. She is filling the one space that I have with one of my 4 day per week children. And the only reason I am trying to hold on longer then usual, is because the mother is friends with another one of my full timers. The 1 day child came as a referral.

Thanks ladies. I think that I needed to hear it for someone else. I was just talking it over with my hubby and said the exact same thing:

a) she needs to attend at least 3 days per week
b) she needs to attend daddy and me classes where she can get used to having the shared attention, and not throwing up.
c) the parents need to STOP. The child will not sleep because she is used to sleeping on daddys chest
d) Throwing up= home