If it's breakfast they have brought I will let them sit and eat it at the table , to me that is not the child's fault ! The others are told to go play and leave x to eat . I won't address early snack , just a simple , it's not snack yet .
I think teaching kids if someone has something everybody gets one is ridiculous !
If they have brought a snack item , that gets put up and they will have it for snack . They will not however get my snack .
I feel badly for children that are not prepared for the day , dressed , fed ect but I understand as a mother sometimes it's just been a rushed morning .
With toys , as long as the toy is shared and not causing a problem , ( Dora for 2 hrs ?? Wow you are amazing !!! I can't handle Dora's yelling ugh !)
I let them have it , if it a special toy it's fine for the child not to share again as long as they aren't causing issues with it .